After being stuck at work all weekend, I really wanted to take advantage of the beautiful day outside. I don’t really have close friends and since my job has me working an odd schedule, I always find myself off from work on certain days during the week but with nothing to do and no one to hang out with. It doesn’t help that I have not been feeling like myself lately. I can’t help but feel like I am in rut. I am two years away from turning 30 and am nowhere near where I thought I would be in life. I am stuck in a career that I do not like and stuck in the same neighborhood I am so desperately trying to move out of.
Now any other day, I would have sat in bed contemplating what to do on my day off. Going into the city always seems tempting but then I start thinking about the hassle of walking to the subway (which is quite a walk from where I live) and having to put up with crowded trains, the pushing and shoving and anxiety immediately takes over. Now don’t get me wrong, I am a city girl who grew up getting from point A to point B on the good ole’ MTA but the older I get, the lower my threshold of things I can put up with on public transportation gets. So I usually just end up hopping on a bus that takes me to a shopping center about 15 minutes away. At this point I am there so frequently that workers from various stores already recognize me. I must admit it is kind of embarrassing.
So today I was determined to do something different. I got up early, showered, got dressed and was out the door by 10am. As much as I dislike taking the subway, I got on the train and went all the way downtown to the Soho area. I have some events coming up and thought that would be the perfect place to get some shopping done. Once I was finished with shopping, I was about to go to the Starbucks I always go to when I am in that area ( I am definitely a creature of habit), but then decided I would like to try something new. I went on Yelp and looked up cafes in the area and came across a place called Two Hands. The reviews were great and everyone was raving about their avocado toast. So off I went to find the cute, little café.
It was a great day. It was one of the few times I really enjoyed my own company. It felt good to step outside of my comfort zone.
What have you guys done recently to step outside of your comfort zones?
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